Question by Angela: I thought there were “no breaks” in marriage?
This was my previous question…
Okay…so its been rough…fighting fighting fighting…so my husband takes a break…we’ve been on a break for about 4 days now. He tried to end the break and come back..but he said he hadnt had enough space to figure it out yet…
So I wrote him a letter and told him that for a while we should maybe not live together, and date again…get back to basics and fall back in love…he said he didnt know…he said he would like to do that but isnt sure how it will work out because we have a daughter and doesnt know how to date while we have a daughter…
So today is our anniversary…5 years dating, one year married, 6 years total…hes working…he was supposed to work 9a-8p but a manager got fired so he had to work 4-2a. So we went out to eat and to the store for our daughter…talking…not nagging or trying to fix it..just being together…having company…it was rather nice
Well…before he found out he had to work i had plans to go to the drive in today…was going to ask him to go…but since he had to work we had to cancel and are going tomorrow night. I got a cute lil outfit…im gonna do my make up…look real cute
But the thing is…I want to play hard to get/flirty but not obvious…but its hard because…nothing i do really phases him..not because he doesnt care but because he is sooo confused…he doesnt really want us touching or anything…if we are going to connect he wants it to be with out hearts and not our bodies…but I dont know how to act flirty anymore…weve been together so long that everything was just natural with him and easy and didnt take much work…
Can you help me get his attention guys????? I know you got some ideas for me
I just want to show him..i love him..without being pushy…and not actually saying the words i love you…(he doesnt want to say them until he is for sure we mean them). He is obviously trying…but I want to show him that I AM something to miss and he SHOULD miss me while we are on this break
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So we had a GREAT time…went to ihop..talked and actually LAUGHED..Our daugher was with us…she ate some of daddys pancakes…
Afterwards we went to get his phone fixed…well it wont be in for 3 weeks…so he doesnt wanna wait and knows someone who had an iphone for sale and wanted to go to his parents to figure out how he could get ahold of him to make him a deal…
So we went to his parents house and everyone there was surprisingly nice…Rob mentioned he “tried” drinking the night before but b/c of a previous night couldnt get it past his nose…well I got back in our room…see the Canadian mist and an unopened can of sprite…have a lil to drink…not get drunk…but settle my nerves…so im not so uptight…
So we go to the movies…we talked during most of harry potter…and then we both fell asleep in the end lol..(its a drive in and our windows were up so no one heard us) so there was a second movie…we didnt stay we went back to his house…
After we get there I asked him what time he wanted to take me to my moms and he said “why dont you stay here for the night, you havent been sleeping and theres a bed in our room and ill sleep in the livingroom”
So i spent the night…
Again today he said I could stay at his house…but then he said he wanted to go out with friends…so im not sure if he still wants me to, but it feels like he just said that to make me jealous b/c he knows that during our break ive been hanging out with friends….
So im prolly gonna stay again..idk…but the thing is…he doesnt wanna hug, hold hands…nothing…
But we are getting along GREAT..our problems come up periodically (we talk about them) but if either one of us gets a lil edge we decide to drop it!
Thing is…if things are going so well…why are we still not allowed to touch??? Does it sound like he is only trying to build a friendship, or just take this slow????? He told me he doesnt care whether or not I stay at his house…
Best answer:
Answer by TRACEY
Maybe, just maybe, you talk too much!??
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